This episode of TED Radio Hour explores the struggles many boys and men face in education, mental health, and evolving gender roles. Richard Reeves advocates for a calm, evidence-based approach to supporting men without undermining progress for women, warning that ignoring these issues allows reactionaries to exploit male grievance.
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Boys lag a year behind girls in literacy by high school; two-thirds of top GPA students are girls, and two-thirds of bottom performers are boys.
Men's college enrollment has reversed the historical gender gap—now more women graduate than men in all 20 advanced economies.
Class and race compound struggles: gender gaps in education are larger in poorer neighborhoods, and twice as many Black women enroll in college as Black men.
The term 'toxic masculinity' is criticized as pathologizing; Reeves says the real problem is ignoring male struggles, which creates a vacuum filled by reactionaries.
Promoting men into female-dominated 'HEAL' professions (health, education, administration, literacy) is both economically necessary and culturally challenging.
"If sensible institutions aren't noticing these issues, it gives ammunition to reactionaries who say you don't care about this stuff."
"Richard Reeves"
"I want the debate about gender to become much more boring. The people who are saying non-boring things about gender are either wrong or grifters."
"Richard Reeves"
"We don't need the sound of slammed laptops across the country. We need the sound of curious parents engaging with their kids about their content."
"Richard Reeves"