Mel Robbins interviews Wall Street legend Carla Harris, who provides a masterclass on navigating career uncertainty. Harris reframes the current economic disruption as a unique opportunity to design your own career path, offering practical tools to overcome fear and fatigue, build powerful relationships, and claim your worth. The episode is packed with actionable advice on getting promoted, negotiating salary, and building unshakeable confidence.
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Carla Harris reframes the current economic uncertainty as a unique opportunity because 'all the rules are being rewritten' and nobody has the playbook, allowing anyone to define the game.
She identifies 'fear and fatigue' as the two main things that derail women's careers, especially in midlife, and offers specific strategies to overcome both.
Harris introduces the 'could, should, want' framework to help people stop pursuing what they think they should do and instead focus on what they genuinely want, which is more energizing.
She emphasizes the critical importance of having a 'sponsor'—someone with power who will speak on your behalf in closed-door meetings where career decisions are made.
Harris provides a practical technique for building a reputation: pick three adjectives that describe how you want to be perceived and consistently embody them in every interaction.
"Fear has no place in your success equation. Anytime you approach anything from a position of fear, you will always under-penetrate that opportunity."
"It's not the time to be dictated to. It's the time to design."
"You have extraordinary power. That's why you're even here today."